Are you an asset or liability in a relationship ?

It sounds superficial, but in a way, it is a method to ensure a secure relationship and to ensure a secure family in the long run.

Just imagine, if you hold a party, and your guest come empty handed - they have your food, your wine, your place - and after the party, they just leave. For how long can you sustain it ? In terms of money, psychological support, help and care, no matter in what format, we ought to provide something for each other, and at the same time, be independent. 

Love and support should to be reciprocal, as we need to grow together, to stay forever.

~ Toni

I do

His hello was the end of her endings
Her laugh was their first step down the aisle
His hand would be hers to hold forever
His forever was as simple as her smile
He said she was what was missing
She said instantly she knew
She was a question to be answered
And his answer was "I do" 

courtesy from SATC

~ Cora

Reality check

Reality is what we made of.

things change, people change, 

our outlook changes, our career path changes.

the only thing that's real is who you are to you, your family, and your genuine friends.

it's an art to differentiate a Totem from fantasy.

 

you are one of my Totems.

 

~Toni